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Matchmaker Matchmaker: Find Me a Love That Lasts | Aleeza Ben Shalom
Matchmaker Matchmaker: Find Me a Love That Lasts | Aleeza Ben Shalom
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The ultimate companion for anyone serious about finding and nurturing lasting love, from the star of the hit series Jewish Matchmaking.
Book Overview
In her paradigm-shifting book, Aleeza Ben Shalom, dating coach and Netflix star, guides readers through her highly original perspective on dating, revealing the surprising ways in which a person's dating habits directly influence their chances of finding lasting love. With her unique blend of wisdom and humor, Aleeza debunks widespread societal myths about love, inviting readers to reframe how they approach the practice of dating.
Each chapter introduces a specific methodology while sharing select clients' stories to show the theory in practice. Supported throughout by helpful tools including custom checklists, matching rules, daily reminders, tactical tips, relationship hacks, and frequently asked questions, this volume stands out as a transformative guide for singles of all ages and backgrounds.
Key Concepts & Features
- Date Differently: Focuses on no-nonsense advice to break bad dating loops and reframe modern romance habits.
- Methodology & Real Stories: Balances psychological and cultural theory with real select client case studies from extensive matching files.
- Actionable Tools: Incorporates active visual anchors including custom checklists, matching rules, daily reminders, and relationship hacks.
- Myth Debunking: Dismantles widespread societal myths about romance to help singles navigate the dating scene effectively.
- Multi-Date Perspective: Highlights why rejecting potential partners based on a single awkward first date is a common pitfall.
Core Audience
- Singles of all ages and backgrounds seeking meaningful, long-term romantic connections and marriage.
- Fans of the hit Netflix series Jewish Matchmaking and relationship psychology resources like John Gottman books.
- Dating coaching clients and individuals looking for structured workbooks and tactical relationship guidance.
Author Biography
Aleeza Ben Shalom is a renowned international relationship coach, professional matchmaker, and the breakout star of the hit Netflix series Jewish Matchmaking. Having successfully coached hundreds of couples down the aisle, she brings years of expertise, cultural wisdom, and dynamic energy to her global audience.
Accolades & Awards
Widely acclaimed as a transformative relationship guide and a standout title in the world of modern self-help literature, offering a fresh, authoritative roadmap to lasting love.
Product Specifications
| Full Title | Matchmaker Matchmaker: Find Me a Love That Lasts |
|---|---|
| Author(s) | Aleeza Ben Shalom |
| Publisher & Imprint | Union Square & Co. |
| Publication Date | January 21, 2025 |
| Binding Format | Hardcover (HC) with Dust Jacket |
| Print Length | 288 Pages |
| Language | English |
| ISBN-13 | 9781454956143 |
| ISBN-10 | 1454956143 |
| Library of Congress (LCCN) | 2024022270 |
| Primary Genre (BISAC) | FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Dating |
| Sub-Genres (BISAC) | SELF-HELP / Motivational & Inspirational; SOCIAL SCIENCE / Regional Studies; FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Marriage & Long-Term Relationships |
| Condition | Pre-Owned / Very Good |
| Dimensions & Weight | 6.0 x 1.1 x 9.0 inches | 15.9 oz (approx. 0.99 lbs) |
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this book an autobiography about the author's rise to reality television fame?
No. While she shares occasional personal anecdotes, this book is primarily a strategic, paradigm-shifting dating and relationship guide. It is structured to help singles reframe how they approach the modern dating scene, utilizing ancient wisdom and focused mindsets to build healthy partnerships.
Who is the author, and what unique background does she bring to the text?
The book is written by Aleeza Ben Shalom, a renowned international relationship coach, trainer, and matchmaker who shot to global fame as the breakout star of the series Jewish Matchmaking. She has successfully coached hundreds of couples down the aisle, answering thousands of questions from singles to form the core strategies inside this text.
Does the book feature real-world scenarios or is it strictly dating theory?
It balances both beautifully. Every individual chapter breaks down a specific dating methodology and pairs it with real, select client stories from her extensive matching files. This allows readers to see exactly how her psychological and cultural concepts operate when tested in real life.
What specific actionable advice does the author highlight to break bad dating loops?
A major focus of the book is her famous, no-nonsense advice to "date differently" if your current patterns aren't working. She strongly emphasizes giving potential partners multiple dates before making a final decision, mapping out why rejecting someone based on a single awkward first date is a catastrophic mistake.
What structured tools and interactive elements are included throughout the book?
The volume functions as a highly practical workbook filled with active visual anchors. It features custom checklists, specific matching rules, daily mind reminders, tactical relationship hacks, and direct answers to common dating questions peppered through the text to help readers track their romantic goals.
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